Tag Archives: confidence

Choose a Resourceful State

Have you ever turned up at work to find the boss in a bad mood, then discover that you too are having a bad day? Not only that, but everyone around you is feeling down? It may not be news … Continue reading

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Fall into Someone’s Rhythm in 3 Steps

There are many times that we need to get work done quickly and efficiently. We often go into “tell-mode” when time is short or we are under pressure. Telling people what to do is ok when we want our own … Continue reading

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Valentines Special: Will You Marry Me? And Other Questions

Questions. They are powerful things, aren’t they? They can change how you feel, from sad to happy, or they can change your life, like the question posed in the headline. Questions use what we like to call ‘pull’ communication to … Continue reading

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How To Get Along With People

Are you one of those people who find social situations difficult and are secretly jealous of those who can just fit into any situation and get along with others easily and effortlessly? You envy those social butterflies who can flit … Continue reading

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You Don’t Pay People to be Children

Have you noticed that some people’s behaviour is immature at best and childish in the extreme sometimes? If you are a manager, you may have noticed that your team can “play up” and be difficult? Most children need structure in … Continue reading

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How To Show Class

The picture shows Phil Mickelson turning up at Calloway Golf HQ in California in the week after winning the most famous and prestigious tournament in the world. You will notice a few things about this picture, I am sure. What … Continue reading

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Some Just Get Wet

“Some people feel the rain. Some just get wet.” Bob Marley Emotional Intelligence isn’t just for our work. We could use E.I. to become aware of the quality of the life we already have. By thinking about and dealing effectively … Continue reading

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