Tag Archives: Body language

Choose a Resourceful State

Have you ever turned up at work to find the boss in a bad mood, then discover that you too are having a bad day? Not only that, but everyone around you is feeling down? It may not be news … Continue reading

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Want To Change Someone’s Behaviour?

  I want to share one of the most forehead-slapping learning points that I’ve ever had when dealing with difficult behaviours. Changing someone’s behaviour has got to be the most challenging topic for any manager in today’s environment. This probably … Continue reading

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Fall into Someone’s Rhythm in 3 Steps

There are many times that we need to get work done quickly and efficiently. We often go into “tell-mode” when time is short or we are under pressure. Telling people what to do is ok when we want our own … Continue reading

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Be Like Mourinio

Now, I know you all think that this is just an excuse for me to talk about football. It isn’t. This is an excuse to talk about results and leadership is about results too. You might also think that I … Continue reading

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How To Get Along With People

Are you one of those people who find social situations difficult and are secretly jealous of those who can just fit into any situation and get along with others easily and effortlessly? You envy those social butterflies who can flit … Continue reading

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How To Deal With Liars

Everybody lies, don’t they? From those little comments that spare someone’s blushes (white lies), to the bigger lies that can change the course of appropriate action towards a way un-required if the lie was left untold. Those little lies like: “Tell them … Continue reading

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The Gift Your Team Rejects

Have you ever been paid a compliment at work and then ‘batted’ it away by saying something like: “I was only doing my job.”? We are brought up to be humble. There is something distasteful about someone who is boastful. … Continue reading

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